Dilemma: Chasing the drug.
I was trying to figure out the best way to get to where I want to get with pickup today. I was confounded and felt I needed to spend TONS of time to figure it out. I wanted to do it too. Too see how to get Ausstralian girl, and avoid the Style-Lisa problem.
Then I got it. I read the post by Tucker Max and I REALIZED it (again) there IS no method, there is NO style… there is a mindset, a way of being, a BELIEF that does it for you. You CAN’T read about it in a book because it can only be FELT. It is not an intellectual truth, it is a FEELING. I DON’T know how to write about it because it is embodied by FUCK IT. I felt like doing math for once.
it’s the goal, but you only know it when you ARE it and you FEEL it, then 2 hours later you’ve moved on and you’re asking shit, what method should I use.
The question is what should I do when I’m not feeling it and I want to get better at pickup. The problem is that question is framed in the state of NOT being there. You CAN’T read “fuck it” in a book or on a website, and so you can’t get it. You chase and chase and don’t get there.
The best intellectual answer I can give is this: do what puts you in that state. What does it? Reading things written in that mindset. Doing things I never thought I could do. Getting results from a woman I didn’t think I could get.
So? Work on your game, but more than ever, make it explosive. Do crazy shit. Push yourself. That is the way. Eventually you’ll start getting success, not numbers but success, that will build the state. ONE way to get there is to GET THE SUCCESS of BEING THERE. That’s how Style did it.
Also? Work on making the COGNITIVE SIDE of this therapy. ALL I AM SEEKING IS MINDSET CHANGE. How has this happened in the past? Cognitive behavioral therapy. THAT’S IT. The only problem is there is POWERFUL behavioral therapy out there and no cognitive. It’s hard because I don’t know what intellectual statements to write for the cognitive part. Even in Overcoming SA being afraid that “people will hate me” was kinda accurate, but really only shorthand for a true FEELING that cannot be written. This can be written though. It’s just not a LOGICAL stepping point. At all. NEVER will logic lead me to thinking, oh ya, I should be like that. It won’t take me there. Write cognitive therapy when i’m in the zone… gotta try it to say anything.
